When designing a headstone, families often focus on the front—name, birth and death dates, and a brief epitaph. But for many, a loved one’s memory deserves more. The back of a headstone offers a unique canvas to express personal sentiments, preserve stories, and create a lasting tribute that reflects the spirit of the individual. But can you add a message to the back of a headstone? The answer is a heartfelt yes—with a few considerations.

Whether you're in Central Utah or anywhere else, personalization has become an essential part of modern memorial design. This article explores your options, legal and practical considerations, and the meaningful ways families use the back of a headstone to say just a little more.

Is It Legal to Add a Message to the Back of a Headstone?

Yes, it is legal to add an inscription or personal message to the back of a headstone, provided that:

• You are the legal next of kin or have ownership rights to the plot.

• The cemetery permits back inscriptions (most do, but some require prior approval).

• The engraving follows any guidelines set by the cemetery or monument company.

Before planning a back inscription, always consult with the cemetery or monument provider. They can help ensure compliance and guide you through any local or Utah-specific regulations.

Why Add a Message to the Back of a Headstone?

Adding a message to the back of a headstone serves several purposes:

• More space for expression – The front is typically reserved for standard information. The back gives you room to say more.

• Private or poetic sentiments – Some families choose quotes, scriptures, or inside jokes meaningful to their loved one.

• Legacy statements – A way to communicate values, humor, or encouragement to future generations.

• Honoring multiple people – For double headstones or family plots, the back can recognize additional relationships or individuals.

Popular Personal Messages to Engrave

While every family’s story is unique, these are some of the most frequently chosen styles of messages added to the back of a headstone:

📌 Bullet Points: Popular Ideas for Back Engravings

• Favorite quote or scripture

  “Well done, thou good and faithful servant.” – Matthew 25:21
  “To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.”

• Personal farewell

  “Love you always, Mom.”
  “Gone fishin’ – be back later.”

• Accomplishments or passions

  “Veteran, Teacher, and Forever Fan of the Jazz.”
  “Gardener of beauty, giver of joy.”

• Inside jokes or sayings

  “You’ve got mail.”
  “It’s 5 o’clock somewhere.”

• Family dedications

  “Beloved Grandma of 12 – Our Eternal Anchor.”
  “Forever in the hearts of John, Sarah, and Olivia.”

• Poetry or song lyrics

  “Some glad morning when this life is o’er, I’ll fly away…”
  “The dance we shared beneath the stars above…”

These messages can be humorous, reverent, poetic, or deeply personal—there’s no right or wrong.

Design Options for Back Inscriptions

Adding a back inscription is more than just carving words. You can combine text with:

• Etched illustrations – Mountains, deer, hummingbirds, tractors, musical instruments, etc.

• Engraved scenes – Family homes, favorite landscapes, or religious symbols.

• Portraits or photo etching – Laser-etched images of the person.

• Symbols – Hearts, wedding rings, military insignias, faith-based icons.

Many families in Utah choose to include etched depictions of red rock landscapes, farms, or LDS temples to tie in their heritage and faith.

Placement & Visibility Considerations

Here are a few things to think about when adding a message to the back:

• Will the back be visible? If the headstone is placed against a wall or surrounded by others, the inscription may not be easily seen.

• Do you want it to be discovered, or known only to family? Some families prefer a “hidden” message meant only for those who walk behind and look.

• Engraving space: Your monument provider can help plan the layout so that the message is balanced and fits cleanly without looking crowded.

Cost of Adding a Back Inscription

Costs vary based on material, depth, font, and whether additional artwork is included. Typically, adding a message to the back of a headstone will cost between $150–$600, depending on complexity.

Things that affect cost include:

• Length of text

• Custom fonts or illustrations

• Type of engraving (sandblast vs. laser etch)

• Travel fees if added after installation

Some families choose to engrave the back at the time of purchase to avoid extra costs later. Others wait, allowing children or spouses to add their message when they are later buried together.

Can You Add a Message Years After the Headstone Was Installed?

Yes, absolutely. If the headstone is already in place, monument companies can often come to the cemetery and engrave on-site. This avoids the need to remove the headstone.

On-site engraving allows you to:

• Add new information (such as a spouse’s name or new dates)

• Include a personal message after the passing of a second loved one

• Update or add family dedications

Monument companies will check the space, match the font and style, and ensure the new engraving blends seamlessly with the original.

Utah Families Choosing Meaningful Personalizations

In communities across Central Utah—Richfield, Monroe, Beaver, and beyond—families are leaning into personalization as a way to celebrate the lives of those they love.

Whether it’s a tribute to faith, a nod to a farmer’s legacy, or a quiet message only family will understand, adding a message to the back of a headstone is a powerful way to say: This life mattered.

Final Thoughts: Saying More, the Right Way

Your loved one’s legacy is worth preserving—and sometimes a few extra words on the back of a stone can bring great comfort. Whether you add a spiritual quote, a heartfelt farewell, or a favorite joke, it becomes a timeless part of their story.

Work with a trusted monument provider in Utah to make sure the engraving is done respectfully, beautifully, and in accordance with cemetery guidelines.

👣 Ready to Start?

If you’re considering adding a personal message to a headstone—whether during the design process or years after installation—reach out to our team at Richfield Monuments. We’ll help you craft a tribute that reflects the life, love, and legacy of someone unforgettable.